In a relationship, both partners have their own expectations from each other. These expectations may be completely different from what they as individuals really are. These differences are what give rise to several issues in the relationship. In a relationship, power inequalities created between men and women, lead to dependency and that, over a period of time, fosters the need for power and authority, eventually leading to intimate partner violence and abuse.

Individuals bring unique needs, shaped by their experiences and aspirations. These needs can be physical, financial, emotional, psychological, sexual etc. When one partner finds it difficult to satisfy these various needs of the other, it can give rise to issues and tensions in the relationship. These issues, when not clearly communicated between both partners, ultimately lead to dissatisfaction and frustration. In today’s open and liberal society, sex plays a significant role in relationships. It’s a fundamental human drive, and sexual compatibility is often considered crucial for a healthy relationship. It fosters intimacy, bonding, and emotional connection between partners, contributing to overall satisfaction. Moreover, media, including the internet and social platforms, has contributed to a more sex-positive culture, influencing attitudes and expectations within relationships. The prevalence of dating apps and online platforms has also altered the dynamics of how people meet and connect, sometimes emphasizing physical attraction. However, when these sexual expectations in the relationship are not met, it leads to sexual frustration. It is important to understand and acknowledge this frustration and to have open and clear communication with your partner in order to work on the romance and intimacy in the relationship, ensuring that any form of violence or abuse is avoided.